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Virgin-Shaming of 'Bachelorette' Guy Lights Up Social Media

Virgin-Shaming of 'Bachelorette' Guy Lights Up Social Media

NFL player Colton Underwood attends the Universal, NBC, Focus Features, E! Entertainment Golden Globes after party sponsored by Chrysler on January 8, 2017, in Beverly Hills, California. (Jesse Grant/Getty Images for NBCUniversal)

By    |   Wednesday, 01 August 2018 08:40 AM EDT

Virgin-shaming of "Bachelorette" contestant Colton Underwood has left social media buzzing as hundreds of people declared their support to him after he spoke out about it earlier this week.

During a whirlwind romance with Becca Kufrin on this season of ABC's "The Bachelorette," Underwood revealed that he is a virgin in an awkward conversation with his date, which sparked snide comments from other contestants.

The 26-year-old was eliminated from the ABC reality show during week eight and, on Monday, he broke down and spoke about being shamed for his choice to remain a virgin during the "Men Tell All" reunion episode, USA Today reported.

"Getting cheap shots thrown at me . . . that hurts," he told host Chris Harrison. "I feel that people think I am less of a man because of that and that’s the hardest thing to hear."

As a former football player, Underwood said he often made up lies to evade the topic of sex, which is a frequent locker room topic.

He said that having his virginity in the spotlight was the hardest thing he had ever had to do.

Taking to Instagram, Underwood said that it's a topic he struggles to talk about and when he heard comments from the other contestants, it triggered an unexpected response from him.

"While I respect their opinions, I’m not here to prove a point, say I’m better than anyone else or gain sympathy," he said. "It is what it is . . . my virginity shouldn’t have to be defended or used to describe me as a person."

He added that he is not going to hide who he is.

"If I have to continue to take cheap shots about my virginity — which is only a small part of who I am —so that others like me can feel comfortable & relate —bring it on!"

Underwood was applauded by fans on social media, with hundreds supporting him on his decision.

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Virgin-shaming of "Bachelorette" contestant Colton Underwood has left social media buzzing as hundreds of people declared their support to him after he spoke out about it earlier this week.
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