Steve Nikoui had been glued to TV reports on Thursday, desperate for hints his son, Lance Corporal Kareem Nikoui, survived the deadly airport suicide bombing in Afghanistan when three Marines arrived at his door with the worst news possible.
The 20-year-old Marine, who the previous day had sent home a video of himself giving candy to Afghan children, was among 13 U.S. service members killed in the bombing. Others included an expectant father from Wyoming and a medic from Ohio.
"He was born the same year it started, and ended his life with the end of this war," Nikoui said from his home in Norco, California, referring to the 2001 start of U.S. military operations in Afghanistan.
The U.S. Defense Department has not formally announced the names of the service members killed in the attack at Kabul airport, but details of their lives began to emerge on Friday as family and friends were notified.
Islamic State militants claimed responsibility for the suicide bombing, carried out during a massive evacuation of U.S. and other foreign nationals as well as some Afghan civilians following the Taliban takeover.
On Friday, Nikoui was waiting for a Marine liaison to come to his house to help with arrangements to fly him and his wife to an Air Force base in Delaware, where their son's body will arrive in the coming days.
He said he was angry.
"I'm really disappointed in the way that the president has handled this, even more so the way the military has handled it. The commanders on the ground should have recognized this threat and addressed it," Nikoui said.
Also among the troops killed was Rylee McCollum of Wyoming, a Marine who was married with a baby due in three weeks, his sister, Roice, said in a Facebook post on Friday.
"He wanted to be a marine his whole life and carried around his rifle in his diapers and cowboy boots," his sister wrote, adding that he wanted to be a history teacher and a wrestling coach upon leaving the military.
Along with wrestling, McCollum played football before graduating from Wyoming's Jackson Hole High School in 2019.
"Saying that I am grateful for Rylee's service to our country does not begin to encapsulate the grief and sadness I feel today as a mother and as an American," State Superintendent of Public Instruction Jillian Balow said in a statement. "My heart and prayers are with Rylee's family, friends, and the entire Jackson community."
Regi Stone, whose son Eli enlisted around the same time as McCollum, described him as "smart, strong and courageous" and said he drew comfort when the two hung out together.
"We always knew that Rylee had his back and my son his," Stone told Reuters, adding that he got to know McCollum during visits for dinner at their house. "He's a defender. He loved his country and wanted to make a difference."
COOL OLDER BROTHER
Navy medic Max Soviak's sister Marilyn described him as only a sibling could.
"My beautiful, intelligent, beat-to-the-sound of his own drum, annoying, charming baby brother was killed yesterday helping to save lives," she wrote on Instagram
Soviak's death was confirmed on Twitter by U.S. Senator Rob Portman of Ohio, the medic's home state.
Pictures on Max Soviak's Instagram page show him laughing on the beach, rock-climbing, skiing and posing with two young children. "Not just an older brother, I'm the cool older brother," Soviak wrote in 2019.
His last post was more foreboding.
"It's kill or be killed, definitely trynna be on the kill side," Soviak wrote on June 10.
The accompanying photo appeared to show him alongside two other troops in uniform holding weapons.
The father of Lance Corporal Jared Schmitz, 20, another Marine killed in the bombing, called into a local radio station in Missouri on Friday and tearfully recalled his son's passion for military service.
"He was not the type that liked to just sit around and get his four years done and walk away," Mark Schmitz told KMOX, according to a recording posted on the station's website. "He wanted to be in a situation where he actually made a difference."
Schmitz said his son had been stationed in Jordan on his first deployment before being called to Afghanistan two weeks before the attack.
The last publicly visible post on Jared Schmitz's Facebook page was a July 29 photograph of him at the archeological site of Petra, in Jordan. A friend commented that he hoped Schmitz was staying safe, to which Schmitz replied, "always my guy."
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